Not pregnant, but didn't know where it fit.

[*Molly*]

So here's the deal, and I know I've had this happen (before but not this long and not with spotting). I was on BC, but not regularly (same times)by any means (it was for cysts). Hubby is fixed. Now here's the thing, I'm 10 years late. Anyone got any ideas? I'm 99.9999% sure it's not pregnancy. The kind of funny thing is hubby and I DTD during O and I had spotting a few days after O time period should have ended. My body likes to fuck with me apparently. Bwah ha ha ha!!!
I'm thinking it's some sort of break through bleeding with the BC, but does that count as AF? Shouldn't it have shown by now? I know it will. I'm so thoroughly annoyed though. Anyone got any ideas? I'm thinking I'll go get a HPT. That usually brings AF on right quick. =)

If anything else, I'm just bitching. I just want it to get over with. Having constant cramps is getting really old.

[brenduh]

are you sure you couldnt be pregnant? i know your husband having a V is pretty darn close to *no such luck ever never again* but i dont think its 100% fool proof (i could be wrong though)

when pregnant with ds2, i ran into a lady who was holding her little one (maybe 2 years old) and she said it was the *totally not planned* baby.. (i get a lot of stories when folks find out how far apart my kiddos are) anyways.. she went on to say that she was fixed.. cut, burnt, tied .. you name it they did it to her .. and yet she still managed to grow back together and walla .. her 2 year old was conceived.

[*Molly*]

I would that if he was still fertile, I would have ended up pregnant by now(if that makes any sense). =) I just don't get the BC thing really. I've never been on it because I don't handle the hormones well(still don't, but what are you doing to do. *shrug*) Thanks for the help. =)

BTW, those stories scare the pee out of me. LOL. Hubby says if I end up pregnant, it wasn't from him. I asked him then by who? He's a sick little man. HeeHeeHee....

[~*DASHA*~]

Lol!! Hope you sort it all out. :lol:

[Heavenly]

I asked him then by who? He's a sick little man. HeeHeeHee....

I say its B.O.B lol hahahahahahah

on a more serious note im not sure but i hope you get it figured out

[*Molly*]

Thanks, guys. Being a chick sucks (for the most part). LOL.

[anna-bananas]

Go to the dollar store, buy a HPT, come home, AF will show up. Always works like a charm. :lol:

[Heavenly]

Go to the dollar store, buy a HPT, come home, AF will show up. Always works like a charm. :lol:

That is always sooo flipin true makes you feel like you wasted money lol

[anna-bananas]

Hence, why I suggusted the dollar store variety...:lol:

[anna-bananas]

Now here's the thing, I'm 10 years late.

I'm a little confused though...do you mean 10 days late?

[MistyAnn]

Lol anytime my af is late I take the hpt to bring it on. Stupid af. Luck.

[MissLiss460]

I have trouble with BC pills they cause me to spot then nothing for awhile and all kinds of crap. I agree with Misty, a cheap HPT should bring it right on! lol

[*Molly*]

*Ten days*. Go me and the typos. =)

[anna-bananas]

lol, thanks Molly...I read 10 years & was like WTH...she waited 10 years to be worried about it? Then it dawned on me about the 10th time I read it, that you probably meant days, not years. (That's the dumb blond in me...lol!)

[*Leandra*]

Haha 10 years late. I am a month late now so I feel your pain I am so sick of AF. Good luck hon I hope you get it figured out.

[*Molly*]

Well, misery loves company, I guess. LOL. A month?!? Wow. Have you seen the doctor? The only time I've been late before was on the IUD and that was none at all. Then these last few months have just been a mess. I think I was only a week late last time. The time before that was normal. Then I think the time before that was another week or so.
Leandra, does it happen often to you?

[*Leandra*]

It happened to me once last year and I did go to the dr. I have PCOS so sometimes I guess i can skip a month if I didn't ovulate, my body is fucked up. I want to get the ablation done this year so no more af ;)

[dukyloo2]

my cousin was fixed after his second daughter was born,he has a son now. the doc told him after so long in some cases they don't work anymore. so who knows

[*Molly*]

I did the HPT today and of course negative. I came down and told hubby, guess what honey, I''m NOT pregnant. He laughed at me. So it's just a waiting thing. Thanks for letting me complain about it. Before all three of my kids were born (minus IUD time) my AF was super regular. Since my third was born, it's all gone out of whack. It's just something I'll have to get used to. I have a dr appt and U/S for June 15th to check for cysts, so I'll ask then. Thanks again. It was greatly appreciated.

[*Leandra*]

Good luck I hate girl issues it sucks!

[anna-bananas]

Well, at least you know you aren't pregnant. Hope you can get back to normal!